Learning to be True to Myself

by Joy

My story isn't that heroic by other people's standards. But that doesn't matter because these days I am less concerned about what others think anyway.

All my life I've kept on repeating the biggest mistake of all - not listening to myself. For example, I married the man everyone told me was "perfect" for me and I stayed in the job that everyone told me I was lucky to have. I didn't listen to the fact that I was unhappy in both of these situations.

Eventually I had to call it quits with both the job and the marriage. I was so exhausted all the time and unhappy. In the end I just decided there was no reason anymore to be doing anything but what I wanted to do.

I am in the process of getting a degree in psychology. I want to be a therapist and help other people make better choices. I am much happier these days. I just wish I had made the changes to my life sooner. But I realize many people never find any joy in life so I feel very grateful for what I do have.

I love your website. You are very inspiring.

Simone's Reply: Joy, thank you for your honesty. I am inspired by how difficult things must have been yet you kept going.

Life really is defined by our choices. Bravo to you for having the strength to get up and start making good choices despite the struggle you were living.

You've inspired me to be more honest with myself. Thank you.